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Part 1: Tip of the iceberg
Iceberg (Photo credit: graceinhim) So for a relationship which I thought was fine, how is it that this revelation came to be after a session at couples counselling? Well there was one ongoing issue we...
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Part 2: Clearing the air
Clearing (Photo credit: maury.mccown) Once married and living together we kicked our experimenting up a notch, dressing up, role playing, oils, blindfolds… But still nothing seemed to work. I was happy...
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Part 3: Medicals & Medication
Pills (Photo credit: Grumpy-Puddin) Over the next few months my husband was checked for all the obvious things, appointment after appointment, week after week. He was checked for everything they could...
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Part 4: Porn Again
pornography (Photo credit: cudmore) During all of this, like I have mentioned before, I was up for experimenting in the bedroom. I had offered to watch porn with him (despite HATING it), I was willing...
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Part 5: Gut Feeling
fo reelz (Photo credit: Joseph Robertson) I had learned a long time ago to trust my gut. I had trusted it when accepting his proposal, when deciding on our wedding and when deciding to forgive him for...
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Part 7: Marriage Counselling
relationship-counselling (Photo credit: Ivo Dimitrov) By the time our first counselling appointment arrived we were feeling positive. We arrived together ready to talk about the past and the current...
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We’re going through changes
…change… (Photo credit: ĐāżŦ {mostly absent}) Its been hard to say the least. Over the past few weeks I’ve literally been going through the grieving process (posts and pages on that to come) over the...
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IF….
Unconditional love? What is it? unconditional. (Photo credit: Wikipedia) ‘Unconditional love is known as affection without any limitations. This term is sometimes associated with other terms such as...
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The Three Cs
Codependency: The Game (Photo credit: jasonEscapist) I saw my counsellor straight after porn-gate an he told me to look up co-dependency, he told me about support groups and the three Cs: I didn’t...
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Hearts and Daggers
love graffiti (Photo credit: marc e marc) Funnily enough last week when reading up on the ego states (mentioned in this post) I stumbled across some relating stuff about “strokes” ‘Strokes are the...
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*Deep Breath*
Panic-attack (Photo credit: Wikipedia) I had a bunch of positive posts to polish off today but my mood wont allow it right now…Beth needs some virtual hugs and positive thinking …I’m not sure if I can...
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Date night
Over the weekend we had our date night. He had just had his first therapy session in a while and I had just come home from work… And both of us were a little worse for wear from the night before. SO…...
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Weekly Writing Challenge: 21st Century Love is…Dangerous
Relationship Status Update (Photo credit: joelaz) I have had an ‘isn’t it ironic’ post floating around my head about how we first got together, how we talked about everything and anything…how we got to...
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Just when you thought it was safe to go back in the water…
Deep Breath (Photo credit: kagey_b) So having had a few weeks of “should I stay or go?” I was no closer to a decision. I had felt bad for even thinking about leaving… Not just bad for him but bad for...
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#13 As sick as your secrets
**Continuing on from my last post (here) *** Number 9 Sign (Photo credit: tedeytan) In order for this to make as much sense as possible, its probably a good idea to read back (if you haven’t already)...
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It’s been one year….
It’s been a year since the shit hit the fan…. so it seems only fitting that I write a post. I feel I owe it to myself to revisit this blog -to face my demons- but also to anyone still out there...
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Date night
Over the weekend we had our date night. He had just had his first therapy session in a while and I had just come home from work… And both of us were a little worse for wear from the night before. SO…...
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Date night
Over the weekend we had our date night. He had just had his first therapy session in a while and I had just come home from work… And both of us were a little worse for wear from the night before. SO…...
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Date night
Over the weekend we had our date night. He had just had his first therapy session in a while and I had just come home from work… And both of us were a little worse for wear from the night before. SO…...
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